How many people match?
While the number fluctuates from event to event, and age group, participants match on average 71% of the time.
Why should I try Calgary Speed Dating?
The beauty of Calgary Speed Dating is that you get the opportunity to meet an average of 12 singles in one evening and see immediately if any sparks fly. Different people attend every event. How long has it been since you met that many eligible singles in one night? Here's your chance.
Who attends Calgary Speed Dating?
Calgary Speed Dating is for single people over 18 looking to find that 'someone special'. There are no ethnic or religious barriers.
What if there aren't enough participants?
In the unlikely event that there aren't enough of one gender, we will cancel the event and either refund or credit your money - your choice. Our events average 12 of each gender but if we were to have at least 9 of each, we would still go ahead. (We consider that meeting 9 of the opposite sex in one evening is still a good number of people to meet.)
(Note that same day drop-outs and event no-shows can occur.)
Does it cost anything to register?
The total cost per event is $50.00 plus GST, which includes matches the next day. There will also be snacks at the break and beverages throughout the event. There are no hidden charges. You do not pay extra to receive your match or matches.
Does it cost anything to receive my matches?
No, the cost for the event is all. There are no hidden charges. You do not pay extra to receive your match(es).
Do you do any screening?
Unfortunately, people ask us to screen for almost everything from profession, body type, race, religion to parenthood, etc., If we were to screen for everyone's likes/dislikes, we would never be able to put on an event! Consequently, we let you do your own screening. After all, ultimately, it is you who has decide who is right for you. No one else can do it for you. Do not forget about the importance of chemistry.
How many times can I attend Calgary Speed Dating events?
No matter how you meet people, finding that special someone is a 'numbers game'. There's no getting around it. You can attend as many events as you like. Each event costs $50.00.
Will I meet the same people again at another event?
Anyone who returns to a second event risks running into a past participant. With every return, the chances increase. We do take great care not to place you at the same event as a previous match, while seeing a person or 2 that you have met, but not matched with is ok. Seeing a room full of people you've met before isn't going to happen. What would be the point? We may suggest returning on a different date.
How many matches are typical?
For the stats lovers, we match an average of 71% of the people who attend. Many matches are made at each event. Some people make multiple matches, some make one match and some people won't match that time.
What if I don't match with anyone?
Sometimes, people don't make a match. We find that when we contact people with the disappointing news, they tend to get down on themselves or the other participants. The truth is that you can't connect with everyone. Maybe the right person just wasn't there that night.
An example: I had one fellow who came and didn't make any connections. When I called him, I could sense his disappointment. I talked him into trying again because I truly want people to enjoy the experience and connect with someone. Reluctantly, he did come again and the next time he made three matches!
How long has Calgary Speed Dating been around?
Calgary Speed Dating was Calgary's first speed dating company. In January 2011, we proudly celebrated ten (10) successful years of introducing quality Calgary singles to each other. Our success can be attributed to our personalized, friendly service and our commitment to deliver what we promise to Calgary singles.
It is so much easier attend speed dating with a friend. Why should I go alone?
While there's nothing preventing friends from coming to speed dating events together, I would recommend coming solo.
One of the biggest complaints I hear from men is that groups of women at some single's event huddle together, making them unapproachable.
It is easier to chat with comfortable friends rather than converse with new people. Get out of your comfort zone.
Also, there is no competition with a friend for the same attendees. At least do not attend with friends who have similar tastes as you.
Here are some tips on what to do when you go by yourself and how to have the best time.
Come with the purpose of having a wonderful night, no matter what the outcome the next day. Come without any expectations other than to have a great night out and meet a good group of people. Think of the people you sit across from as good conversation and go out on coffee dates.
Back off from expectations of meeting someone special that night. Decide you're going to go out and do something different and have fun with it. If you meet someone special, consider it a bonus, but don't go looking for it. You'll feel more relaxed and appear more comfortable which will increase your changes.
What if I'm nervous?
Remember that everyone attending is feeling the same thing as you. Everyone is there, like you, to meet someone and maybe make a connection.
Keep telling yourself you can do this. Tell yourself that you are beautiful and confident. Take a deep breath and walk into the room with confidence and a smile. People will be drawn to your positive energy.
Get yourself a beverage and collect the Profiles. Reading Profiles and viewing the art (you will be in an art gallery) gives you something to do if there's a short lull in the conversation.
Introduce yourself and consider that other people may also be shy and nervous. Someone has to make the first move. Women should not leave it all up to the man to initiate. Everyone is in it together.
7 minutes can feel like a long time. What questions should I ask? What should I say?
Do not come to an event with great expectations and wedding plans. Those who do best have no expections. They are relaxed and tend to put other people at ease making them more approachable. Think Coffee Date.
Finally, formulate some ideas of what you might ask others when there is a lull in the conversation. It's best not to ask, "Do you come to these things often?" This type of question is loaded. Ask about things that are more specific nature to that person. Ask open ended questions. What do they like to do when they're not working? Have they traveled? Don't interrogate. Remember that good conversation is give and take. Refer to the Profile for common ground.
Never come with a shopping list of questions, especially on paper. NO one wants to be interrogated.
Here are a few suggested harmless questions to start conversation:
- What do you do for fun?
- Where are you from?
- What brought you to Calgary?
- Tell me about your favourite pass time ?
- What is your favourite restaurant in Calgary?
Don't forget to review the Profile Sheet with you when you leave.
How should I dress for the event?
Dress for different temperatures. It might be cool when you first arrive, so wear something pretty that can easily be removed when things warm up. Wearing an outdoor coat is like wearing armour.
What do I get for $50.00?
The full evening's of meeting new people will be held at an art gallery closed to the public. All snacks and beverages are complimentary. The matches will be sent out the next day. It is a similar amount for what you would normally spend at a restaurant or night out?
Lately (since Oct/Nov '09) I've noticed I don't always get a return email?
Why is that?
While the volume of Calgary Speed Dating emails coming in have increased, I still get to all emails when I can. Emails concerning the earlier speed dating events get preference.
Once an email I write leaves Outlook, it is out of my hands. Email SPAM filters have been increasingly selective and now consider "dating" a bad word. Other words like FREE and SEX have been blocked for some time. Unfortunately, due to the online sites and fake on-line accounts, the word "dating" has joined that list.
That means that some of you are not receiving emails from us.
You may find our emails in your SPAM folders or on an Email Blocked list depending on your server preferences (ask your IT guy)
Adding cathy@CalgarySpeedDating.com to your email Address Book should help.
Also, about 1/6 of your emails to us ends up in our SPAM folder. We now have to check our SPAM folder daily.
Email subject lines are different, why?
In order not to trigger the email SPAM filters we are removing "Dating" from as much as the email as we can. Yes. It is a challenge since it is part of our name. Calgary Speed Dating in the subject line will now be referred to as CSD or CaglarySpeedDating.com.
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