How many people match?
While the number fluctuates from event to event, and age group, participants match on average 71% of the time.
Why should I try Calgary Speed Dating?
The beauty of Calgary Speed Dating is that you get the opportunity to meet an average of 12 singles in one evening and see immediately if any sparks fly. It's a different group of people at every event. How long has it been since you met that many eligible singles in one night? Here's your chance.
Who attends Calgary Speed Dating?
Calgary Speed Dating is for single people over 18 looking to find that 'someone special'. There are no ethnic or religious barriers.
What if there aren't enough participants?
In the unlikely event that there aren't enough of one gender, we will cancel the event and either refund or credit your money - your choice. Our events average 12 of each gender but if we were to have at least 9 of each, we would still go ahead. (We consider that meeting 9 of the opposite sex in one evening is still a good number of people to meet.)
(Note that same day drop-outs and event no-shows can occur skewing numbers.)
Does it cost anything to register?
The total cost per event is $50.00 plus GST, which includes matches the next day. There will also be snacks at the break and beverages throughout the event. There are no hidden charges. You do not pay extra to receive your match or matches.
Does it cost anything to receive my matches?
No, the cost for the event is all there is to pay. There are no hidden charges. You do not pay extra to receive your match(es).
Do you do any screening?
Unfortunately, people ask us to screen for almost everything from profession, body type, race, religion to parenthood, etc., If we were to screen for everyone's likes/dislikes, we'd never be able to put on an event! Consequently, we let you do your own screening. After all, ultimately, it is you who has decide who's right for you. No one else can do it for you. And don't forget about the importance of chemistry.
How many times can I attend Calgary Speed Dating events?
No matter how you meet people, finding that special someone is a 'numbers game'. There's no getting around it. You can attend as many events as you like. Each event costs $50.00.
Will I meet the same people again at another event?
Anyone who returns risks running into a past participant. With every return, the chances increase. Although, we take great care not to place you at the same event as a previous match, seeing someone you've met before is ok. Seeing a room full of people you've met before isn't going to happen. What would be the point of that? We may suggest returning on a different dates
How many matches are typical?
For the stats lovers, we match an average of 71% of the people who attend. Lots of matches are made at each event. Some people make multiple matches, some make one match and some people won't.
What if I don't match with anyone?
Sometimes, people don't make matches. We find that when we contact people with the disappointing news, they tend to get down on themselves or the other participants. But the truth of the matter is that you can't connect with everyone and maybe the night just wasn't right. For example, I had one fellow who came and didn't make any connections. When I called him, I could sense his disappointment. I talked him into trying again because I truly want people to enjoy the experience and connect with someone. Reluctantly, he did come again and the next time he made three matches!
How long has Calgary Speed Dating been around?
Calgary Speed Dating was Calgary's first speed dating company. In January 2010, we proudly celebrate our ninth (9) successful year of introducing quality Calgary singles to each other. Our success can be attributed to our personalized, friendly service and our commitment to deliver what we promise to Calgary singles.
It's easier to go to speed dating with a friend. Why should I go alone?
While there's nothing preventing friends from coming to speed dating events together, I would recommend coming without friends.
One of the biggest complaints I hear from men is that groups of women at some single's event were huddled together, making them unapproachable.
Here are some tips on what to do when you go by yourself and how to have the best time.
Come with the purpose of having a wonderful night, no matter what the outcome the next day. Come without any expectations other than to have a great night out and meet a good group of people. Think of the people you sit across from as good conversation and go out on coffee dates.
Back off from expectations of meeting someone special that night. Decide you're going to go out and do something different and have fun with it. If you meet someone special, consider it a bonus, but don't go looking for it. You'll feel more relaxed and appear more comfortable which will increase your changes.
What if I'm nervous?
Remember that every one present is in the same boat. Everyone is there, like you, to meet and maybe make a connection.
Keep telling yourself you can do this. Tell yourself that you are beautiful and confident. Take a deep breath and walk into the room with confidence and a smile. People will be drawn to your positively.
Get yourself a beverage and collect the Profiles. Reading Profiles gives you something to do if there's a short lull in the conversation.
Introduce yourself, consider that other people may also be shy and nervous. Someone has to make the first move. Women should not leave it in the man's court to initiate. Everyone is in it together.
Everyone my age is too old for me. Why can't I join a younger age group?
Hmmm, there's something I only hear at least once a day, seven days a week. The good news is that everyone else in the room also feels young, "everyone" tells them they look young (what, have you ever met anyone who would say to you, "Wow.... Do you ever look your age or you could even be a couple of years older?) and feels entitled to be in a younger group. The truth is that in my years of doing this, I could truly count on two hands the number of people who really could go into a younger group and not stick out like everyone's older brother/sister or even everyone's mom or dad. People have every opportunity to go into an older age group (and sometimes they do) if they are looking for someone who is older.
7 minutes can feel like a long time. What questions should I ask? What should I say?
Do not come to an event with great expectations and wedding plans. Those who do best have no expections. They are relaxed and tend to put other people at ease making them more approachable.
Finally, formulate some ideas of what you might ask others when there is a lull in the conversation. It's best not to ask, "Do you come to these things often?" This sort of question is loaded. Ask things of a more specific nature to that person. What do they like to do when they're not working? Have they traveled? Just don't interrogate. Remember good conversation is give and take. Refer to the Profile for common ground.
Never come with a shopping list of questions, especially on paper. NO one wants to be interrogated.
Here are a few suggested harmless questions to start conversation:
- What do you do for fun?
- Are you from Calgary?
- Do you have any favourite things?
- What is your favourite restaurant in Calgary?
Don't forget to review the Profile Sheet with you when you leave.
How should I dress for the event?
Dress for different temperatures. It might be cool when you first arrive, so wear something pretty that can easily be removed when things warm up. Wearing an outdoor coat is like wearing armour.
What do I get for $50.00?
The evening event at the art gallery, all snacks and beverages, meeting new people and the matches the next day. A similar amount for what you would normally spend at a restaurant or night out?
Lately (since Oct/Nov '09) I've noticed I don't always get a return email? Why not?
While the volume of Calgary Speed Dating emails coming in have increased, I still get to all emails when I can. Emails concerning earlier dates get preference. Once an email I write leaves Outlook, it is out of my hands. Email SPAM filters have been incresingly selective in what they will and will not let through. Words like FREE and SEX have been blocked for some time. Now we suspect that DATE, DATES and DATING have joined these lists as quite suddenly some of you are not receiving emails from us. Adding cathy@CalgarySpeedDating.com to your email Address Book should help.
Email subject lines are different, why?
In order not to trigger the email SPAM filters we are removing "Dating" from as much as the email as we can. Yes. It is a challenge since it is part of our name. Calgary Speed Dating in the subject line will now be referred to as CSD or CaglarySpeedDating.com.
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